Reflections

Are You Parenting Your Child.. Or Your Past?

It’s easy to say we want the best for our children. It’s harder to admit that sometimes “the best” is just what would have healed us. In this continuation, I...

Are You Parenting Your Child.. Or Your Past?

It’s easy to say we want the best for our children. It’s harder to admit that sometimes “the best” is just what would have healed us. In this continuation, I...

The Kind of Father That’s Hard to Explain

What does it look like to grow up with a manipulative father who isn’t visibly abusive, but is quietly controlling? In this deeply personal reflection, I share what it means...

The Kind of Father That’s Hard to Explain

What does it look like to grow up with a manipulative father who isn’t visibly abusive, but is quietly controlling? In this deeply personal reflection, I share what it means...

Growing Up With an Emotionally Unstable Mother

Not all difficult mothers fit headlines. Some are traumatised girls who were never helped and became women who never healed. In this reflection, I write about growing up in a...

Growing Up With an Emotionally Unstable Mother

Not all difficult mothers fit headlines. Some are traumatised girls who were never helped and became women who never healed. In this reflection, I write about growing up in a...

My Bridal Era, Rewritten

My Bridal Era, Rewritten

This wedding isn’t a performance. It’s a marker of survival, of healing, of arriving home after years of instability and hurt. It’s choosing the partner who stood by me, and...

My Bridal Era, Rewritten

This wedding isn’t a performance. It’s a marker of survival, of healing, of arriving home after years of instability and hurt. It’s choosing the partner who stood by me, and...

Different Lives, Different Loads: Why All Our Struggles Are Valid

Different Lives, Different Loads: Why All Our S...

This blog post dives into the quiet, often unseen challenges of adulthood: entrepreneurship, family history, emotional capacity and why my decision not to have kids was made with intention and...

Different Lives, Different Loads: Why All Our S...

This blog post dives into the quiet, often unseen challenges of adulthood: entrepreneurship, family history, emotional capacity and why my decision not to have kids was made with intention and...

Do Traditions Serve Us, or Do We Serve Them?

Do Traditions Serve Us, or Do We Serve Them?

Lately, with my upcoming house move, I’ve found myself caught in the crossfire of “should do because it’s tradition.” There’s always a list of customs people say you “must” follow,...

Do Traditions Serve Us, or Do We Serve Them?

Lately, with my upcoming house move, I’ve found myself caught in the crossfire of “should do because it’s tradition.” There’s always a list of customs people say you “must” follow,...