⚠️ Disclaimer Before We Dive In
This post is not about calling anyone out personally. I’m not here to offend, attack, or discredit people who’ve been in this work longer than me. I know many are doing good work and I honour that. But I’m also not here to stay silent for the sake of “spiritual niceness.” This isn’t about ruining anyone’s rice bowl. This is about sharing my truth, my perspective, and letting it land where it’s meant to. If it resonates, great. If not, feel free to leave it.
Just because it’s “spiritual” doesn’t mean it’s safe or sacred. Let’s talk about something that rarely gets addressed in the crystal and healing space: spiritual dumping.
You’ve probably experienced it. Maybe you’ve done it. (We all have at some point: the key is whether you keep doing it.)
It sounds like:
✔️“I had a download I need to share with you, spirit told me to.”
✔️“You’re carrying something heavy, I can feel it.”
✔️“Your energy is off… want me to clear it for you?”
Harmless? Not always. Uninvited energy work is still a violation. And not every “message from the universe” needs to be delivered, especially if it bypasses consent, timing, or emotional readiness.
What Is Spiritual Dumping?
Spiritual dumping is when someone uses their beliefs, intuition, or “gifts” to unload onto someone else; often without permission, awareness, or accountability.
It’s not sacred. It’s not healing. It’s emotional leakage disguised as spiritual help.
And it often creates:
✔️Emotional confusion
✔️Energetic entanglement
✔️Disempowerment masked as concern
Why It Happens (and Why It’s So Common)
Because many people in the spiritual space were never taught boundaries. We confuse sensitivity with entitlement to access. We think being “empathic” gives us a right to speak on things that aren’t ours to name.
But here’s the truth: Being intuitive does not give you a pass to be intrusive. Just because you feel something, doesn’t mean it’s yours to fix.
The Energetic Boundary Everyone Needs to Learn
Before you “read” someone… ask.
Before you “share a download”… check in.
Before you “clear someone’s energy”… question your intention.
Are you truly helping, or soothing your own discomfort by trying to control theirs?
That’s the real work.
And If You’re on the Receiving End?
You’re allowed to say:
✔️“Thanks, but I didn’t ask for that.”
✔️“Please don’t read my energy without consent.”
✔️“That feels more about you than me.”
You don’t owe spiritual politeness to someone who just dumped their unresolved projections in the name of intuition.
Final Thoughts...
Real energy work is respectful. It’s rooted in consent, timing, discernment, and boundaries; not spiritual ego or emotional leakage. Being sensitive doesn’t mean being boundaryless. Being “gifted” doesn’t mean being entitled. Energetic maturity is knowing.
Just because you can sense it, doesn’t mean you need to speak on it.